9.12.2008

Two Months


At the hospital, when they brought Kareem to me, I didn't know what to do with him, didn't even dare to hold him. I'm not used to deal with newborns and always thought that they look funny and weird with their puffy eyes and wrinkled skin.
I stared at Kareem in amazement, like a kid who has just received a new toy and still has no idea what to do with it and how it works. I thought that he looked so cute, even with the puffy eyes and wrinkled hands. Everybody was encouraging me to hold him but I was scared and thought that he was too small and fragile to hold! I was afraid that I might hurt him or something. But eventually I forced myself to hold him, carefully.. and cautiously...
Is this the same creature who has lived inside me for nine months? Subhan Allah!!
So finally we met. It took us some time to get used to each other. I thought that I was such an ignorant mother who didn't know how to handle her baby, and I felt guilty about it. I didn't even know how to change his diaper, I remember that once I woke my mom up in the middle of the night because I couldn't figure out how to change Kareem's diaper by myself :D . I used to get extremely worried and panic whenever Kareem cries thinking that I must have missed something or done something wrong. I've always felt guilty and blamed myself about it until I found out that crying is just the way babies express their needs, it's their only language, and sometimes they cry just for the heck of it! I had lots of things to learn. I can say that the first month was extremely difficult, lack of sleep made me exhausted and drained all the time.No baby blues though thank God! I didn't know that being a mother can be this hard. Now I understand why is it so great to be a mom and why we must appreciate our mothers.

The second month, however, was less exhausting. I kinda started to understand Kareem's language. He now cries less and has certain signs to express what he needs instead of crying. I'm enjoying him more and everybody is enjoying him. Friends and family, young and old, have fallen in love with Kareem. He became everybody's toy :D. They visit us more often not to see me but to see Kareem, and call us not to check on me but to check on Kareem. And I don't mind at all of course :D. Kareem is a sociable baby, he likes visitors, and mostly behaves in their presence.
Kareem is a stubborn baby, and very hyper too, mashallah! He gets bored easily and always wants new things to entertain him. He has his own rules, nobody can control him and this is making things hard for me. I'm a person who cherishes freedom, now I feel that I lost it all. I am no more free to do whatever I want at the time I want. My whole life is now devoted to Kareem, the sweetest and the most precious gift that heaven sent us.
Kareem turned two months old today! Happy Birthday Kareemo. May God bless and protect you my little angel. We love you.
and thank you for giving me a few minutes to write this post :D

8 comments:

NasEr said...

:))))) you made me smile the entire time reading !
so you know he is sociable already ah ? :DDDDDDDDDD Moms !!! :DDDD

Kareem please give mom a bit of more time bcuz we miss her :p we're you're friends from the virtual world...woo wooo :DD

Hala said...

Awww wallah sar nefsi ykoon 3endi baby :$

Allah ye7meeh ya rab *hugs*

Diana said...

Naser, aaaah ebni sociable, sho be3arfak enta :D
I read that some babies get upset when there are visitors and 3aj2a while others are more sociable and like meeting new faces and enjoy being around new people :p

Halool: inshallah bnefra7 feki ya rab w betjebelna a7la baby *hug*

nido said...

This is lovely! Kol shahar ou kareem salem :)
The best part is that it gets easier with time...I went through worse but hamdillah it's much better now:) Thanks to family :$
Allah yi7meelkom eyyah!!

nido said...

P.S: May I suggest you make the font a lil bit darker ? Makes it easier to read :$

Diana said...

Thank you Nido, hek el font a7san?

Dino$ said...

ya zaki ya kareemo liesh mghaleb mamy?! u know reading your blog is so comforting for ppl who plan on getting bobos because they can totally relate to you.

are u in dubai??? i tried calling u mughlaq

miss u dondon bidi al3ab ma kareemo

Diana said...

lol Dandoon, read ya 7abebti read, you'll remember these posts ba3deen. Mabrook again, I'm glad to hear that you're gonna be a mom :)
I'm still in Lebanon, will be back to UAE in a month or so, but most probably to Abu Dhabi not Dubai.